Affairs Provide a Confidence Boost Women Didn't Expect!

A fascinating study from Tilburg University in the Netherlands revealed that having an affair can boost married women’s self-esteem and life satisfaction. Researchers analyzed the relationships of 947 German adults over 12 years. Out of these, 609 had affairs, and 338 were cheated on.

Led by Professor Olga Stavrova, the study found that women tend to feel better about themselves after cheating, while men often suffer. This surprising rise in well-being likely comes from addressing unmet personal needs and sometimes sparks positive changes in their partners.

Interestingly, the findings, published in Psychological Science, showed that infidelity often follows years of relationship difficulties. Women seem to cheat due to long-term dissatisfaction. The study also challenged the idea that infidelity is the source of unhappy relationships, suggesting it stems from existential longings.

Experts say that feeling desired and addressing mortality concerns can make women feel more alive. Affairs might provide sought-after reassurance for those with an anxious attachment style. Despite these findings, infidelity can still cause great harm to relationships and families.

While the study sheds light on why some cheat, it’s clear that looking into relationship issues early on is crucial.