The “orgasm gap” in heterosexual encounters continues to be a significant gender
equity issue, but new research sheds light on how women can increase their chances
for sexual satisfaction. A recent study found that when women set a goal to have an
orgasm, they were more likely to achieve it. Interestingly, this relationship between goal
pursuit and orgasm frequency did not exist for heterosexual men.
In a series of experiments, researchers explored how various cues impact women’s
intent to pursue orgasm. In Study 2, women who were told a hypothetical sexual
encounter would be “quick” showed less intent to achieve orgasm than those who were
told they could “take their time” or received no time information. Meanwhile, Study 3
revealed that women who believed their hypothetical partner was selfish were less likely
to pursue orgasm compared to those who thought their partner was considerate or
received no partner information.
These findings indicate that women’s motivation to pursue orgasm can vary depending
on situational cues, such as time constraints and partner behavior. Importantly, these
effects were influenced by women’s perception of how likely they were to achieve
orgasm in the given scenarios. Using self-regulation theory, this research highlights how
recognizing and addressing these cues.
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